Hare Krsna,
Lord Krsna’s supreme instruction in Bhagavad-Gita (18.66) is to abandon all varieties of religion and just surrender unto Hiṃ. While this sounds straight forward but difficult, what is little known is the test one has to go through to prove one’s complete surrender to Krsna. This is also partly a reason why many people fear surrendering. What do they have to go through? What do they have to give up? Therefore, Krsna assures Arjuna, “mā śucaḥ. Do not fear.”
Depending on one’s devotional aspiration and stage of bhakit, one’s test of surrender would be different. The test the gopis went through is the highest epitome of surrender. Of course, their aspiration is also the highest. They wanted Krsna as their beloved husband. They wanted the highest rasa with Krsna – madhurya rasa. Therefore, the test that Krsna put them through is both highest and extreme. It is relatively easier to give up one’s body, wealth, possessions, family, mind, heart, etc. to surrender to Krsna. But what is the greatest wealth a woman could possess? It’s her chastity. Giving up chastity is worse than death for a respectable woman. In traditional India deeply rooted in Vedic culture, dishonor is worse than death. We often hear cases where a woman gives up her life if she is molested, raped or falsely accused to adultery. This is also a reason why many Indian women cover their heads and faces with a dupatta or sleeve of her saree to protect being seen by opposite sex. Similar practices exist in other cultures too. Pious Muslim women cover themselves with an abaya/burka and hijab. Christian nuns also cover their heads as a symbol of piety and modesty. This practice is known as Christian veiling. In essence these women are protecting their chastity. And Krsna is basically asking the gopis, “Are you ready to give up Your shyness and chastity to attain Me as your husband?”
According to Srila Visvanatha Cakravarti Thakura’s commentary on verse 15, the gopis said, “We, being Your maidservants, will carry out Your word. Moreover because You are very beautiful we have to become Your servants, and thus under the guise of being servants, we will offer our very selves to You.”
Krsna, in response, is saying, “Very well! Prove your truthfulness!”
Kṛṣṇa then spoke, “We will now test the truthfulness of your words. If you are really My servants, then you will do whatever I say. Please come forward with a smile and take your clothes. If you are not true to your words and fail this test of dharma, then I will not return your clothes.” (Text 16)
The gopis felt trapped.
“The gopis talked among themselves, “O sakhis! We have been defeated by our own words. Now, if we delay any longer some other man may come along, and then we will be sunk in an ocean of shame. Our desire to touch Kṛṣṇa’s body has become even stronger, and cannot be put to death even by drowning in the water. Therefore it seems our fate has been written on our foreheads, and we can do nothing to change it. Therefore, yielding to His demands, we must put aside our embarrassment, send our obstinacy to hell and close our eyes. In that darkness we will cover our bodies and rise up from the water.” (Text 17)
Thus assuring each other that there was no alternative, the gopis rose up out of the water to meet Kṛṣṇa.
Feeling satisfied with pure unalloyed love (sudda-bhāva) of the gopis, Krsna thought, “Out of love for Me these gopis have done something which is very difficult for any woman. But there remains something even more difficult, and I wonder if they can do it? Now let Me test the power of their love.”
In a way, Krsna is also going through His own test of surrendering to His pure unalloyed devotees. He is wondering, “Out of love for Me these gopis have done something which is very difficult for any woman. But there remains something even more difficult, and I wonder if they can do it? Now let Me test the power of their love.” (Text 18)
And then Krsna said to the gopis, “O gopis, you have said that you are My servants, and that you will follow My words. Now I am going to test you. If you come out of the water and stand before Me, I will give you your clothing along with My body, mind and soul.” (Text 18)
Thus we see that this surrendering process is mutual and reciprocal. Krsna is also willing to give up Himself – His body, mind and soul to His fully surrendered devotees. And in this sweet exchange of surrender, it is the devotee who ultimately wins. And it reaches a point where Krsna has nothing more to offer, leading to the famous verse na pāraye ’haṁ.
“ I am not able to repay My debt for your spotless service, even within a lifetime of Brahmā. Your connection with Me is beyond reproach. You have worshiped Me, cutting off all domestic ties, which are difficult to break. Therefore please let your own glorious deeds be your compensation.” (SB 10.32.22)
Mundane people often misinterpret this beautiful pastime as another example of Krsna’s lusty behavior. Serious and sincere sadhakas will see this as a great lesson in humility and total surrender to the most desirable Personality – Sri Krsna.
We chant the Holy Name with the prayer, ”O Radhe, O Krsna, please engage me in Your service.” Krsna will ask, “What can you give up to attain My service?” Are we ready to completely surrender like the gopis, giving up even our most precious wealth (like shyness and chastity)? Deep points to ponder!!!
All glories to Srila Prabhupada!
